She suddenly realized that it wasn't the others who could not understand her but herself who could not rise up to the same height of those fathers and mothers willing to resign themselves, without crying, not only to the departure of their sons but even to their death.
1.请问画线句willing是 who are willing 中省略了who are 的成份吗?
2. willing to resign themselves在该句中是独立理解还是 与下文to the departure of their sons but even to their death.连起来看?