各位老师好，下面句子：

Rather than seeing it as the start of a couple’s journey together, as in the past, they often see it as something not to try until they arrive—with a good job, a house, financial stability and a lavish party.

—with a good job, a house, financial stability and a lavish party.是做状语修饰not to try?还是和arrive with合在一起用？

谢谢老师。