可以。网友说的两种表达都对！

由于It is + adj. + of sb. to do sth. 结构，是 Sb. is + adj. + to do sth. 的变式，所以，我们完全可以使用不定式的“完成体”，表示不定式的动作业已完成，而且早于be 动词：It is + adj. + of sb. to have done sth. 这也是区别于It is + adj. + for sb. to do sth. 结构的一个重要标志。

例如：

It's too kind of you to have told me that.

你把那件事告诉了我，真是太好了。

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It was really very kind of you to have done so much washing for me.

帮我洗了这么多衣服,难为你了!

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It is too kind of you to have reminded me of that.

你及时提醒我那件事,真是太好了。

It's very kind of you to have given us much help.

你给了我们那么多的帮助真是太好了。

It's very kind of you to have invited me.

非常感谢你的盛情邀请。

It's very kind of you to have listened to me.

你听了我的话真好。

It's very kind of you to have accompanied me here tonight.

谢谢你今晚陪我。