给你一个简单的例子。

He made me a chair. 他给我做了一把椅子。

你想想，他用斧子、锯子、凿子的动作对象是我还是椅子。哪个是直接动作对象，哪个是间接动作对象？

He gave me a pen.

=He gave a pen to me

me 是间接宾语，a pen 是直接宾语。

我的疑问：为什么指人的叫间接宾语而指物的叫直接宾语? 这个“直接”与“间接”是如何与指物与指人联系起来的？

解答如下

间接宾语：是指物要给的对象，即要把某物给谁。

直接宾语：指指要给的东西/事物，即所给的某物。

可接双宾语的常用动词归纳如下

(1) 双宾语易位时需借助介词to的常用动词      

award sb. sth. = award sth. to sb. 颁奖给某人

bring sb. sth. = bring sth. to sb. 把某物带给某人

Will you bring me an English-Chinese dictionary ?

你把英汉字典带给我好吗？

give sb sth=give sth to sb把某物给某人

She gave me a book

她给了我一本书

hand sb. sth. =hand sth. to sb. 把某物递给某人

lend sb. sth. = lend sth. to sb. 把某物借给某人

He lent some money to me.

他借了一些钱给我。

mail sb. sth. = mail sth. to sb. 把某物寄给某人

offer sb. sth. = offer sth. to sb. 将某物给某人

owe sb. sth. = owe sth. to sb. 欠某人某物

pass sb. sth. = pass sth. to sb. 把某物递给某人

pay sb. sth. = pay sth. to sb. 付给某人某物（钱）

post sb. sth. = post sth. to sb. 把某物寄给某人

read sb. sth. = read sth. to sb. 把某物读给某人听

return sb. sth. = return sth. to sb. 把某物还给某人

send sb. sth. = send sth. to sb. 把某物送给某人

They sent us a telegram.

他们给我们拍了电报。

sell sb. sth. = sell sth. to sb. 把某物卖给某人

serve sb. sth. = serve sth. to sb. 拿某物招待某人

show sb. sth. = show sth. to sb. 拿某物给某人看

take sb. sth. = take sth. to sb. 把某物拿给某人

teach sb. sth. = teach sth. to sb. 教某人某物

Mr.Li teaches us how to play the piano

李先生教我们弹钢琴

Mr.Wang teaches us English

王先生教我们英文

tell sb. sth. = tell sth. to sb. 告诉某人某情况

He told us the fact 他把事实告诉了我们

throw sb. sth. = throw sth. to sb. 把某物扔给某人

write sb. sth. = write sth. to sb. 给某人写信

(2) 双宾语易位时需借助介词for的常用动词

book sb. sth. = book sth. for sb. 为某人预定某物

buy sb. sth. = buy sth. for sb. 为某人买某物

Mother bought a new dress for me。

妈妈给我买了一件新衣服。

choose sb. sth. = choose sth. for sb. 为某人选某物

cook sb. sth. = cook sth. for sb. 为某人煮某物

draw sb. sth. = draw sth. for sb. 为某人画某物

fetch sb. sth. = fetch sth. for sb. 为某人去取某物

find sb. sth. = find sth. for sb. 为某人找到某物

fix sb. sth. = fix sth. for sb. 为某人准备某物

get sb. sth. = get sth. for sb. 为某人拿来某物

make sb. sth. = make sth. for sb. 为某人做某物

order sb. sth. = order sth. for sb. 为某人订购某物

pick sb. sth. = pick sth. for sb. 为某人采摘某物

prepare sb. sth. = prepare sth. for sb. 为某人准备某物

save sb. sth. = save sth. for sb. 为某人留某物

sing sb. sth. = sing sth. for sb. 为某人唱某物（歌）

spare sb. sth. = spare sth. for sb. 为某人让出某物

steal sb. sth. = steal sth. for sb. 为某人偷某物