She actively argued for women's rights to be educated and to marry whom they pleased, or not at all.

请教老师， marry whom they pleased 这里怎么分析？

marry 后面为什么没有定语从句的先行词，例如marry sb whom they pleased ?

另外，这里的谓语pleased是及物动词，意思是“使某人高兴，取悦某人”的意思吗？为什么不用be pleased with 对某人满意，

即应该是marry sb whom they are pleased with 呢？