with a more extensive, emotionally charged ,self-schema for appearence

其中，名词self-schema为介词with的宾语。more extensive为前置定语，for appearence为后置定语。emotionally charged为插入语，前后用逗号隔开，对extensive作补充说明。如果去掉这个插入语，二个逗号就同时消失。注意more extensinve前有不定冠词a。

the history of changing , but consistently restrictive, beauty ideals

but consistnetly restrictive作为插入语，插在前置定语changing 和名词beauty ideals之间，前后用逗号隔开。插入语对changing作补充说明。