He's getting married. = He is being married. （？）

【答】不等于。而且He is being married.是错句。

1. 网友善于自己“造句”： He is being married. 是啥意思呢？

married 是形容词，be 是系动词。

系表结构的进行时，表示一时的表现或带有“感情色彩”。

【语法知识】系表结构一般不用于进行时态，但有时表示性质、品质等的形容词如：foolish, nice, kind, careful, patient, lazy, silly, rude, polite, impolite, pleasant, energetic, lovely, lively等作表语时，可以用于进行时，表示一时的表现，与平时不一样，且带有“感情色彩”。

Why is she being so foolish?她为什么表现得那么笨？

You're being a little impolite,Lily!莉莉，你表现得有点儿不礼貌噢！

The little boy is being annoying.那个小男孩真有点令人讨厌。

这个用法跟married 不搭边！

2. He's getting married. 这个句子正确。is geting 属于“终止性动词的进行时表将来”，不是正在进行。译为“将要”。又如：

June 2 nd will be a red-letter day for him, he's getting married.

六月二日是他的大喜日子, 他要结婚了。

来自《现代汉英综合大词典》

He's getting married again, after two divorces, so he obviously hasn't profited by his experiences.

他两次离婚之后又结婚, 显然没有吸取以往的教训。

来自辞典例句

Talking of Jim, have you heard that he's getting married?

说到吉姆, 你听说他要结婚了吗?

He is going to marry Blanche Ingram.(是及物)

【答】正确。

She is married to me.（形容词）

【答】正确。

I am going to get married.(短语动词？)

【答】哪来的短语动词？get married 是表动作的“系表结构”；be married 是表状态的“系表结构”。